What is it exactly that you see when you look at the reflection in the mirror?
I mean a clean reflection... no extra additives :)
... Just wake up one day... wash your face... and look at that gorgeous person staring back you. I mean... do you feel like you are gorgeous? do you feel like you are the cat's meooooooow?
Are you edible? Can I eat you?... Are you capable of being adored? Do you know exactly what it is that you love about yourself?
Or are you insecure & overwhelmed with the things you dislike or hate? I want to know what it is about yourself that you dislike? Can you learn to accept it? If not, are you bold enough to change it?
Sounds like simple questions... yet we can seem to find the most complicated answers.
I bet you never think of how much your own self image is reflected in your actions. Nor how it is reflected in your relationships with others.
Cuz when you feel sexy, you act sexy... you dress sexy.. you all in the club being sexy... but when you feel ugly lets just say... IT shows... and what is exactly is sexy now adays? lol I will reflect about that in a later blog... cuz I see women sometimes... with their tits out their ass out but it ain't sexy... its a mess... unless you have my ass... and my friend Kami's tits... just joking... but yes a later blog....
And...what is it about feeling ugly? are you worst critic? Cuz I have complimented people sometimes and they say girl please... I look horrible, I look ugly... And I just say okay... cuz maybe being you is ugly.. I mean I don't know... Are you your own worst critic? Or maybe you don't like the "real you"... Or are you not hiding what you seem to think are visible flaws???
What is it about your flaws? How can much time can we honestly spend trying to hide them? Aren't flaws the one thing that separates you? Isn't that supposed to make you "special'? Or has society made you feel as if you have to be picture perfect 24-7? Let's face it, every woman on television is gorgeous? And have you seen the women in the streets? Or maybe you don't live in Los Angeles...
When do you stop trying to keep up with the Jones????? ... because for too many your flaws become your insecurities...
I am baffled by women who can't be themselves around their man, or even worst their friends. What is the facade for? How are you keeping it real when everything around you is so fake? Or maybe the mascara, the foundation, the lipstick, the exaggerated accessories... all that is you... :) Have someone ever told you without makeup... Girl.. I didn't even recognize you... lol... sounds like you don't even recognize you....
Do you even know yourself anymore? Are you that far gone into the hype?
It's scary how much time you can put into recreating the person who is supposed to be you. Are you that awful? Are you that dissatisfied with God's creation?
Even men, I watch them disappear into a character of who they think will fit in. Really you shoot people all day... but youWhat is it so great about fitting in? It used to be cool to stand out...
And don't get me wrong, I do understand... Life is much easier sometimes when everyone thinks you are hot. Being someone everyone wants can get you "special privileges" that sometimes just being yourself can't. When you are the object of everyones desires its kind of a curse to become just "regular." But being "regular" is also determined by who's eyes it is that the view is coming from correct?
Don't you want your "inner circle" to love you just for being you? Or maybe you just like the "image" of your "inner circle"... Have you ever asked yourself do they just like the image of knowing you? Ever thought of investing in people who love you flaws and all??? Or do you just like the stage while the lights on... Ever thought of what will happen to you once they are turned off... Just wondering...
Again, I am not judging... I am just wondering... Believe me, I love getting all dolled-up and my friends know... when we go out... we are the "Life Of The Party"... I enjoy getting chased to the car by screaming fans... (jk but not really) but I also enjoy chilling out with my hair and fro with tons of cocoa with my gals... at a local coffee shop.... So, I am just saying... give yourself the best of both worlds!
Just know you don't have to try to be anything to attract people with substance... just be you... I am asking you to be confident, not arrogant.. BIG DIFFERENCE...Cause you know I don't try to be sexy... just kidding... but I don't....
